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“tantra is a love affair with life; an awareness of the divinity within you and the honoring of the sacred and divine within another. it ignites an internal flame, a universal creative force that spirals up from deep within our being.”

TONI CARMINE SALERNO



reclaim pleasure, passion and power!

  • feel more alive

  • become magnetic

  • manifest your desires

  • connect to true power

  • experience more joy

  • have vibrant health


MEN

WOMEN

COUPLES



WHAT CLIENTS SAY:

“In just a few sessions, I was able to go deeper with Niav, than I had in extended periods of time with traditional therapy. 

Niav creates a warm and safe space without judgement, that allows for a gentle unfolding and revealing of what needs to be expressed. 

Her ability to listen and intuitively tap into the core matters at hand, lead the way for deep inner healing.

I was truly amazed by her work and would recommend working with her to anyone seeking greater self-love and healing of relationships. ”  - Ali Lemaitre, Newburyport, MA


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MEN:

Become a masterful lover…

learn to:

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  • Cultivate ejaculatory choice and last longer

  • Become sexually self-resourced and multi-orgasmic

  • Expand orgasmic energy and pleasure throughout your entire body

  • Heal sexual wounds including ED, porn addiction, and breaking the habit of sexual fantasy

  • Feel deeply empowered in your masculinity


Niav’s holistic approach to coaching is transformational. Niav brings a wealth of knowledge to each session sharing techniques to experience unimaginable pleasure, as well as exercises to heal deep childhood wounds.

Personally, Niav has helped me overcome a decade old habit that impacted my sexual confidence, greater awareness to experience multi-orgasms, and confront limiting thought patterns.

If you are looking for personal growth, inner harmony, or breathtaking pleasure - Niav is the coach for you.
— James F, Boston, MA

men’s coaching package:

10 session One-on-One Coaching Package

investment is $3000 or 3 installments of $1100

Over the course of 10 sessions, you’ll 

  • Learn Foundational Tantric Sexual Practices & Holistic Sex Tools

  • Train in both Cool and Hot Solo Sexual Practices

  • Work with Redefining Masculinity, Heal the Father Archetype, Harness & Transform Primal Sexual Energy into Expanded Consciousness

The 10 session coaching package allows time for Intermediate & Advanced Training, Learning to become Multi-Orgasmic, and Becoming an Advanced Lover.

All sessions are done over Zoom, in my private online conference room, from the privacy of your home or office. Although, sexual topics will be addressed in the sessions, there’s no explicit nudity nor sexuality during the sessions.


tantric sex, Love & relationship coaching

How will I know if I want sex, love or relationship coaching?

If you are struggling in any of these areas and desire to change your current circumstances but don’t know how, then coaching is perfect for you!

In the area of LOVE, coaching can support you to cultivate radical self love and self acceptance,  create a sense of worthiness and deservingness, and learn to love your body exactly as it is.

In the area of RELATIONSHIP, coaching can support you to create healthy, deeply satisfying relationships, attract your ideal partner, and learn loving, authentic communication and connection.

In the area of SEXUALITY, coaching can support you to release sexual blocks and fears, open to more pleasure and connection to your body, reclaim sexual pleasure as a source of power and nourishment, and ultimately to sexually thrive.

What is Tantric Sex, Love, & Relationship Coaching?

In order to answer this question, let’s first explore what Tantra is. 

Tantra is a radical spiritual path to liberation. It is one of the only spiritual paths that honored the body as holy. Tantrics revered the physical body as a temple. Tantra holds the premise that God/Goddess lives within each of us, that all life is imbued with the energy of God(dess), and it is our privilege to take impeccable care of this energy (which is known by many names including prana, chi, life force).

The word Tantra comes from the ancient language of Sanskrit. “Tan” means to weave or stretch. “Tra” means a tool. Essentially, Tantra is a tool that weaves or stretches consciousness.

I have studied and am informed by both Classical and Neo-Tantric principles and philosophies.  

From Classical Tantra, I operate from the belief system that you are already perfect just as you are. There is nothing to fix. The core of you is consciousness and love. Second, healing is a journey of awakening to the Truth of who you are. This process is a remembering rather than a fixing. It is possible to awaken at any moment. It’s your choice. Sometimes, you need to be reminded that you even have a choice.  Third, in the process of awakening, you liberate yourself from limiting ideas, beliefs, and perceptions that bind you, keep you small, or restrict the flow of your energy. 

From Neo-Tantra, I introduce and teach a variety of Tantric practices that enable you to stretch your capacity for pleasure, aliveness and connection. These practices and techniques are meant to support you in consciously connecting your physical body to your energy body by awakening and activating the energy flow.

Although my coaching approach rests on a foundation of ancient Tantric wisdom, I offer a holistic perspective, incorporating techniques from modern psychology, cutting-edge neuroscience, and somatically based healing modalities that are informed by decades of practice in yoga, massage, and craniosacral therapy. My coaching methodology includes talk coaching, meditation, visualization exercises, embodiment practices, and breathwork.

What happens during a session?

There’s a wide range of what can happen during a coaching session from talking about your current struggles or successes to uncovering your deepest desires, from working through a particular process to being guided through a meditation or visualization. Although we may discuss sex, there’s no nudity or explicit sexuality during the sessions. All sessions are done over Zoom in my private online conference room which gives you the convenience of working with me from the privacy and comfort of your home or office.

What is the difference between Coaching and Therapy?

Although there may be some overlap in the methodology, coaching is not therapy. Where therapy tends to focus more on your history and past wounds, coaching focuses on your potential, on where you want to go and what you desire. Together we partner to create a goal and plan of action to move you in the direction of your greatest and deepest desires.

How do I know if coaching is right for me?

Coaching is right for you if you are ready to experience change and you are willing to do the work.  By work, I mean to engage fully in the process, to be open and willing to consider something new and most importantly to be ready to let go of what is not working in your life and focus on moving forward. Coaching is NOT for you if you are looking for someone to tell you what to do, if you want to dwell in the past or focus on other people and their behaviors.  While we will examine different aspects of your life and what has shaped your beliefs and perceptions, this process is about YOU and how you can love and accept yourself unconditionally, recognize your unlimited potential, and begin to thrive in your love, sex, and relationship life!

What do I do next?

Fill out my Client Intake Form. Once I receive your completed form and determine that we are compatible, I will email you to schedule a free 30-60 minute Discovery Call. This session is totally free with no strings attached and I guarantee you will come away from our time feeling inspired with some new insights whether we work together or not.

How much does coaching cost?

At the end of our discovery call, we will discuss whether or not we both think we are a good fit.  I will tell you more about my program and share the investment with you at that time. 


WOMEN:

Reclaim your Sexual Power and Radiance…

BECOME A QUEEN OF PLEASURE!

learn to:

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  • Decondition sex-negative patterns including body shame and disempowerment

  • Restore original genital sensitivity and become orgasmic and multi-orgasmic

  • Use techniques for retaining and redirecting sexual energy to enhance pleasure, spark creativity, and increase magnetism

  • Heal, integrate and release sexual trauma

  • Liberate repressed energy


Women’s coaching package:

10 session One-on-One Coaching Package

investment is $3000 or 3 installments of $1100



Over the course of ten 60 to 90 minute sessions, you’ll 

  • Establish a container of Love, Safety and Belonging

  • Uncover unconscious and subconscious Blocks that are keeping you from Sexual Fulfillment & Power

  • Liberate Emotional Blocks & Integrate Sexual Wounds

  • Learn Self-Pleasure and Sacred Sexuality Techniques to Become Orgasmic

  • Learn Energy Activation, Breath work, Visualization and Meditation Practices

The 10 session coaching package allows for a Deeper Dive into all of the above areas.

All sessions are done over Zoom, in my private online conference room, from the privacy of your home or office. Although, sexual topics will be addressed in the sessions, there’s no explicit nudity nor sexuality during the sessions.




tantric sex, Love & relationship coaching

How will I know if I want sex, love or relationship coaching?

If you are struggling in any of these areas and desire to change your current circumstances but don’t know how, then coaching is perfect for you!

In the area of LOVE, coaching can support you to cultivate radical self love and self acceptance,  create a sense of worthiness and deservingness, and learn to love your body exactly as it is.

In the area of RELATIONSHIP, coaching can support you to create healthy, deeply satisfying relationships, attract your ideal partner, and learn loving, authentic communication and connection.

In the area of SEXUALITY, coaching can support you to release sexual blocks and fears, open to more pleasure and connection to your body, reclaim sexual pleasure as a source of power and nourishment, and ultimately to sexually thrive.

What is Tantric Sex, Love, & Relationship Coaching?

In order to answer this question, let’s first explore what Tantra is. 

Tantra is a radical spiritual path to liberation. It is one of the only spiritual paths that honored the body as holy. Tantrics revered the physical body as a temple. Tantra holds the premise that God/Goddess lives within each of us, that all life is imbued with the energy of God(dess), and it is our privilege to take impeccable care of this energy (which is known by many names including prana, chi, life force).

The word Tantra comes from the ancient language of Sanskrit. “Tan” means to weave or stretch. “Tra” means a tool. Essentially, Tantra is a tool that weaves or stretches consciousness.

I have studied and am informed by both Classical and Neo-Tantric principles and philosophies.  

From Classical Tantra, I operate from the belief system that you are already perfect just as you are. There is nothing to fix. The core of you is consciousness and love. Second, healing is a journey of awakening to the Truth of who you are. This process is a remembering rather than a fixing. It is possible to awaken at any moment. It’s your choice. Sometimes, you need to be reminded that you even have a choice.  Third, in the process of awakening, you liberate yourself from limiting ideas, beliefs, and perceptions that bind you, keep you small, or restrict the flow of your energy. 

From Neo-Tantra, I introduce and teach a variety of Tantric practices that enable you to stretch your capacity for pleasure, aliveness and connection. These practices and techniques are meant to support you in consciously connecting your physical body to your energy body by awakening and activating the energy flow.

Although my coaching approach rests on a foundation of ancient Tantric wisdom, I offer a holistic perspective, incorporating techniques from modern psychology, cutting-edge neuroscience, and somatically based healing modalities that are informed by decades of practice in yoga, massage, and craniosacral therapy. My coaching methodology includes talk coaching, meditation, visualization exercises, embodiment practices, and breathwork.

What happens during a session?

There’s a wide range of what can happen during a coaching session from talking about your current struggles or successes to uncovering your deepest desires, from working through a particular process to being guided through a meditation or visualization. Although we may discuss sex, there’s no nudity or explicit sexuality during the sessions. All sessions are done over Zoom in my private online conference room which gives you the convenience of working with me from the privacy and comfort of your home or office.

What is the difference between Coaching and Therapy?

Although there may be some overlap in the methodology, coaching is not therapy. Where therapy tends to focus more on your history and past wounds, coaching focuses on your potential, on where you want to go and what you desire. Together we partner to create a goal and plan of action to move you in the direction of your greatest and deepest desires.

How do I know if coaching is right for me?

Coaching is right for you if you are ready to experience change and you are willing to do the work.  By work, I mean to engage fully in the process, to be open and willing to consider something new and most importantly to be ready to let go of what is not working in your life and focus on moving forward. Coaching is NOT for you if you are looking for someone to tell you what to do, if you want to dwell in the past or focus on other people and their behaviors.  While we will examine different aspects of your life and what has shaped your beliefs and perceptions, this process is about YOU and how you can love and accept yourself unconditionally, recognize your unlimited potential, and begin to thrive in your love, sex, and relationship life!

What do I do next?

Fill out my Client Intake Form. Once I receive your completed form and determine that we are compatible, I will email you to schedule a free 30-60 minute Discovery Call. This session is totally free with no strings attached and I guarantee you will come away from our time feeling inspired with some new insights whether we work together or not.

How much does coaching cost?

At the end of our discovery call, we will discuss whether or not we both think we are a good fit.  I will tell you more about my program and share the investment with you at that time. 


COUPLES:

Experience your deepest connection, LOVE & PLEASURE TOGETHER!

learn to:

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  • Use breath and relaxation techniques as one of the primary keys to unlocking exquisite pleasure with your partner

  • Connect to yourself first to become the best lover for your partner

  • Prolong pleasure by cultivating greater sensitivity and slowing down

  • Develop the skills of presence and awareness, the cornerstones of conscious sex, through guided meditation and visualization


Hiring Niav as our coach may be the single best investment of our lives. We’ve exceeded our hopes for enhanced connection and passion!

We’ve always worked hard at our relationship and achieved a lot of happiness, but we repeatedly encountered pain around parts of our relationship and sex life that seemed to get worse with time and attention, rather than better. Even with so much right about our relationship, we were scared about our future and desperate for help when we found Niav. She met us where we were and led us through adaptive practices to get clear about our individual needs and desires, form a powerful relationship vision, uncover and address limiting beliefs, and build care and communication habits that have transformed our sense of connection and seriously amped-up our passion and satisfaction in the bedroom!

We could not be more grateful for our transformation, and we can not recommend Niav highly enough!
— Peter & Shana, Boston, MA

couples tantra journey - 10 session One-on-One Coaching Package

investment is $3500

or 3 installments of $1200

Over the course of 10 sessions, you’ll 

  • Learn Foundational Tantric Philosophies, Principles and Practices for Couples

  • Discover 12 Keys for Better Sex & 7 Sacred Keys for Couples

  • Train in a whole range of Tantric Practices including Yoni & Lingam Massage (aka Pussy & Penis Massage), Eye Gazing, Soul Gazing, Sex Alchemy, Full Body Orgasm, Chakra Lovemaking, Sensational Play and many more

All sessions are done over Zoom, in my private online conference room, from the privacy of your home or office. Although sexual topics will be addressed in the sessions, there’s no explicit nudity nor sexuality during the sessions.


tantric sex, Love & relationship coaching

How will I know if I want sex, love or relationship coaching?

If you are struggling in any of these areas and desire to change your current circumstances but don’t know how, then coaching is perfect for you!

In the area of LOVE, coaching can support you to cultivate radical self love and self acceptance,  create a sense of worthiness and deservingness, and learn to love your body exactly as it is.

In the area of RELATIONSHIP, coaching can support you to create healthy, deeply satisfying relationships, attract your ideal partner, and learn loving, authentic communication and connection.

In the area of SEXUALITY, coaching can support you to release sexual blocks and fears, open to more pleasure and connection to your body, reclaim sexual pleasure as a source of power and nourishment, and ultimately to sexually thrive.

What is Tantric Sex, Love, & Relationship Coaching?

In order to answer this question, let’s first explore what Tantra is. 

Tantra is a radical spiritual path to liberation. It is one of the only spiritual paths that honored the body as holy. Tantrics revered the physical body as a temple. Tantra holds the premise that God/Goddess lives within each of us, that all life is imbued with the energy of God(dess), and it is our privilege to take impeccable care of this energy (which is known by many names including prana, chi, life force).

The word Tantra comes from the ancient language of Sanskrit. “Tan” means to weave or stretch. “Tra” means a tool. Essentially, Tantra is a tool that weaves or stretches consciousness.

I have studied and am informed by both Classical and Neo-Tantric principles and philosophies.  

From Classical Tantra, I operate from the belief system that you are already perfect just as you are. There is nothing to fix. The core of you is consciousness and love. Second, healing is a journey of awakening to the Truth of who you are. This process is a remembering rather than a fixing. It is possible to awaken at any moment. It’s your choice. Sometimes, you need to be reminded that you even have a choice.  Third, in the process of awakening, you liberate yourself from limiting ideas, beliefs, and perceptions that bind you, keep you small, or restrict the flow of your energy. 

From Neo-Tantra, I introduce and teach a variety of Tantric practices that enable you to stretch your capacity for pleasure, aliveness and connection. These practices and techniques are meant to support you in consciously connecting your physical body to your energy body by awakening and activating the energy flow.

Although my coaching approach rests on a foundation of ancient Tantric wisdom, I offer a holistic perspective, incorporating techniques from modern psychology, cutting-edge neuroscience, and somatically based healing modalities that are informed by decades of practice in yoga, massage, and craniosacral therapy. My coaching methodology includes talk coaching, meditation, visualization exercises, embodiment practices, and breathwork.

What happens during a session?

There’s a wide range of what can happen during a coaching session from talking about your current struggles or successes to uncovering your deepest desires, from working through a particular process to being guided through a meditation or visualization. Although we may discuss sex, there’s no nudity or explicit sexuality during the sessions. All sessions are done over Zoom in my private online conference room which gives you the convenience of working with me from the privacy and comfort of your home or office.

What is the difference between Coaching and Therapy?

Although there may be some overlap in the methodology, coaching is not therapy. Where therapy tends to focus more on your history and past wounds, coaching focuses on your potential, on where you want to go and what you desire. Together we partner to create a goal and plan of action to move you in the direction of your greatest and deepest desires.

How do I know if coaching is right for me?

Coaching is right for you if you are ready to experience change and you are willing to do the work.  By work, I mean to engage fully in the process, to be open and willing to consider something new and most importantly to be ready to let go of what is not working in your life and focus on moving forward. Coaching is NOT for you if you are looking for someone to tell you what to do, if you want to dwell in the past or focus on other people and their behaviors.  While we will examine different aspects of your life and what has shaped your beliefs and perceptions, this process is about YOU and how you can love and accept yourself unconditionally, recognize your unlimited potential, and begin to thrive in your love, sex, and relationship life!

What do I do next?

Fill out my Client Intake Form. Once I receive your completed form and determine that we are compatible, I will email you to schedule a free 30-60 minute Discovery Call. This session is totally free with no strings attached and I guarantee you will come away from our time feeling inspired with some new insights whether we work together or not.

How much does coaching cost?

At the end of our discovery call, we will discuss whether or not we both think we are a good fit.  I will tell you more about my program and share the investment with you at that time. 


what clients say:

“Niav is a tremendous coach. She creates a soft, yet powerful container for deep and profound transformation. Working with her was an incredibly valuable experience.

She helped me explore my relationship to worthiness and deservingness around my core desires. She held this process in such a safe and supportive way.

Her intuition is so spot on and she really allows it to guide her in the session, which led to some eye-opening discoveries. She brings a high level of compassion, curiosity, and integrity to her work.” - Collen Kelly, Bali, Indonesia


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Yes, let’s do this!