Are you ready to take your sex life to the next level?
What if you could learn to become an erotic virtuoso, masterfully playing the instrument of your and/or your lover’s body with dexterity and confidence, knowing exactly how to give and receive pleasure in ways that easily opened you and them to orgasmic bliss?
Do you desire to explore and expand your sexual knowledge?
Are you interested in deciphering your body’s erotic code so that you can experience more pleasure and passion in the bedroom and more aliveness in every aspect of your life?
What if I told you that your body contains secret treasures of THE most exquisite pleasure you may not even be aware of?
And what if you could unlock that treasure trove of magic? What if all it required was the right map, tools, and guide? Are you curious and brave enough to go on that journey of sexual self discovery?
YOUR BODY IS A
WONDERLAND!
an erotic PLAYGROUND OF HIDDEN PLEASURES!
THIS IS WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER & DECODE IN SEX LIFE REBOOT.
I’ve got the map. I’ll be your guide.
Are you bored, frustrated or unfulfilled in the bedroom?
Do you find yourself going down the same tired arousal pathway every time you’re intimate?
Do you have an inkling that there’s so much more to you erotically, but you’re not sure how to tap into it or express it?
Maybe your sex life feels more like a distant memory of something you used to have, and whenever you try bringing back the spark to your lackluster erotic experiences, you end up disappointed and frustrated.
Or maybe you’ve been faking orgasms in your marriage for longer than you can remember and you’re finally ready to change, but also #50shadesofawkward?
HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED,
“IS THIS IT?”
“IS THIS ALL THERE IS TO MY SEX LIFE?”
If you answered YES, YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
In my personal as well as professional experience, intimacy struggles and feeling unfulfilled sexually are some of the most common issues whether you’re alone or in a relationship.Ones that tend not to be discussed very often.
Believe me, I understand, my partner and I loved each other so much and yet we were a complete mismatch in the bedroom. It was a huge source of pain and confusion for both of us until I found Jaiya and the Erotic Blueprints™.
It was through identifying and understanding our Individual erotic expressions, being able to put words to them, and recognizing that neither one of us was wrong or broken that we started the journey of healing our fractured sex life.
You long to feel sexy, desirable, and connected to your eroticism and pleasure body, but can’t quite figure out how to get there.
You desire sexual healing and transformation in your life, but you don’t know where to start tackling the fear, shame, or confusion that leaves you feeling stuck.
You want to feel deeply connected to your partner, but everything you or they do rubs you the wrong way and instead of being intimate, you opt for crashing on the couch watching Netflix together night after night.
You’ve come to the right place!
This is exactly what we’ll address (and so much more) in
SEx life reboot.
are you lost in translation between the sheets?
Sex has been one of the biggest sources of pain and confusion for me. Frustratingly, it became even more painful and confusing when I finally met an amazing man who totally loved me and was fully committed to our relationship. Despite the depth of our love and commitment, we just couldn’t get it together sexually.
Everything that aroused him, shut me me down.
He wanted hot and heavy, zero to 60 - bullet train to orgasm.
I wanted slow, soft, lingering, and sensual.
He wanted in and out.
I wanted connection and depth.
He wanted a quickie.
I wanted hours of build up - teasing, tantalizing deliciousness.
I wanted Tantric Sex & he wanted to fuck.
We were both BEYOND sexually frustrated. Our erotic mismatch seeped into our relationship outside of the bedroom. We became increasingly resentful and angry towards one another - feeling hurt, misunderstood and unmet in our desires.
Many times we came to the edge of ending our relationship.
And then about 2 years in, we found Jaiya and the Erotic Blueprints™.
The information she shared was life changing. She normalized what we were experiencing. We came to recognize that neither of us were wrong, bad, broken or weird for wanting what we wanted erotically.
We just had totally different Erotic Blueprints™!
What a relief to know that this was something other people struggled with. What a relief to know we weren’t totally alone and screwed up on the island of sexual mismatches. What a relief to know there was a way to understand and accept each other’s arousal pathways without shaming or judging the other…
AND there was a way to BRIDGE THE GAP BETWEEN THEM!
When there's an erotic mismatch between partners it can lead to sexual disempowerment.
If you’re having sex at all, it might feel boring or deeply triggering (or both).
In this state, every cautious initiation to kiss or cuddle can cause you to close up and distance yourself from your partner, even though you’re hungry for deep connection and intimacy.
Or you have sex, but you know your partner isn’t really into it and while they do it to make you happy, it bothers you that you can’t get them excited.
You know they’re not fully there with you and it eats away at your confidence and your own desire.
We communicate through our sexuality and if you don’t understand your and/or your partner’S erotic language, you’re destined to experience bumps and struggles.⠀⠀
When you can’t relate to the way your partner expresses their sexual desire and erotic energy, it can leave you questioning the entire relationship and how you feel about each other.
Once we realized we simply had different ways of expressing our sexuality and they were equally valid, we stopped judging ourselves and each other and became more understanding and compassionate.
Finding the Erotic Blueprints™ helped us understand what we needed to feel erotically nourished and to heal the rift of disconnection and misunderstanding that had come between us.
it was one of the first major steps to reconciling our erotic connection.
this is what I teach in sex life reboot!
what are the erotic blueprints™?
The Erotic Blueprints™ (EBs) are a brilliant framework for better understanding your core erotic nature.
During her work as a sexologist, Jaiya Ma, a world renowned sex educator, discovered 5 primary patterns of erotic expression:
Energetic
Sensual
Sexual
Kinky
Shapeshifter
She discovered that each the EB has their own unique arousal pathway that include particular ways of being touched, fed and erotically related to. They have different ways of communicating. They have different desires. They get turned on by very different stimuli.
What she realized was many of her clients weren’t being erotically stimulated in ways that allowed them access to their full pleasure capacity. And, in fact, because they and/or their partner weren’t aware of their EB, were getting shut down erotically. This is exactly what happened to me and my partner!
Hence the Erotic Blueprint™ movement was born out of a desire to help individuals and couples understand their bodies better, open to more pleasure, and lessen the pain and shame around their sexuality.
“I came to Niav a little over a year ago crippled by old wounds. I lived my life heavily weighed down by my own negative thoughts and feelings.
Through my coaching sessions with Niav, old wounds became healed, old beliefs and patterns that no longer served me went away. As we continued our work, my life turned a corner in a way that I never imagined. I now view myself, my relationships, and my life differently. I now feel that anything is possible, that I can do anything, and above all, that I deserve all of the great things that life has to offer.
I am forever grateful to Niav. I look forward to continuing this path with her, and I am excited for where it will lead me.”
-CHRISTINE M., BOSTON, MA
sex life reboot
Take your sex life from Hot Mess to writhing “YES!” with the Erotic Blueprints™!
how this course works
This is a curated program for singles and couples
Receive lifetime access to Jaiya’s Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough Course™ (EBBC) which is chock full of hundreds of hours of content including video demos of how to feed each Erotic Blueprint™, both solo and with a partner. Sex Life Reboot gives you one access pass to EBBC along with Jaiya’s Erotic Freedom Club (EFC) online community (worth $997).
Sex Life Reboot is built around the EBBC framework and designed to guide you through the program in a supportive curated way with personal coaching from me to help you integrate the information from EBBC.
In addition to the 8 modules from EBBC, you will receive either 3, 6 or 8 Private 1:1 Coaching Sessions with me. These 60-75 min calls are designed to help you go deeper into the material, to embody it, and to heal shadow aspects and sexual wounds of your Erotic Blueprint™. I tailor the information you learn in EBBC to your particular and unique situation and needs.
Guided and recorded embodiment practices to help you integrate the material and navigate any blocks you might encounter while exploring the blueprints on your journey.
you’ll learn to
Determine your Erotic Blueprint™ and understand what turns you on and off (the quiz is only the beginning of understanding your sexual expression)
Communicate your needs and desires to a partner in a way they will actually be able to undestand you.
Stop feeling erotically starved and learn how to feed your unique arousal pathway so that you no longer need to outsource your pleasure and become your own best lover.
Understand and embody everything about your arousal template (even the shadow parts!) and learn the yummy details that will take your sex life from ‘meh’ to ‘OMG’!
Learn to understand and speak to your partner’s Erotic Blueprint™ when there is a mismatch and skilfully take them towards orgasmic bliss.
Receive masterful coaching from me and begin resolving your sexual wounding with personalized guidance.
Use tried and tested somatic practices (supported by cutting edge neuroscience) to help you go inside, and listen to all the wisdom that is right inside your exquisite body.
Heal the rift of disconnection and misunderstanding you feel, both towards your own sexuality and your partner’s.
Knowing it’s in reach, are you ready to take full responsibility for your sexual happiness and fulfillment?
“Hiring Niav as our coach may be the single best investment of our lives. We’ve exceeded our hopes for enhanced connection and passion!
We could not be more grateful for our transformation, and we can not recommend Niav highly enough!”
— PETER & SHANA, BOSTON, MA
It doesn’t take years to heal your sexual wounds.
You can live with your pain for the next two decades, or you can resolve some of your biggest challenges in less time than you think.
While I can’t promise that this course will solve all of your problems around sexuality and relationships, I can guarantee that if you’re willing to explore your Erotic Blueprint™ and apply the tools I share with you, you’ll be a whole lot closer to what you desire than where you are right now or if you did nothing.
When my clients first come to me they are in pain, disconnection and despair.
From that place, they can’t even imagine how their lives could look and feel any different - especially not fast.
I have seen hopeless individuals and couples transform into completely new people time and time again. After working together (often for short periods of time), the results are still remarkable and shocking to me!
The transformation is from fear to joy.
From insecurity to confidence.
From total frustration to deep connection and love.
This is for singles or couples who…
Want their sex life to feel exciting again and fully live their desires (even the secret ones), but they don’t know how to get from where they are now to where they want to be.
Know they want to explore expansive erotic experiences even though their current sex life is non existant or stale.
Want to feel connected with their partner and experience deeper intimacy, but there is fear around opening up to the part of themselves that keeps getting in the way.
Want to experience ease and pleasure and feel alive in their body again. They know that if they could loosen the numbness and liberate their sexual energy, it would spill into the rest of their lives.
Want to drive their partner wild in bed - but right now everything you do is turning them off (or vice versa) and you don’t really know how to do that.
Want to take the mystery out of sex and relationships and understand how to meet their own erotic desires and those of a lover.
Don’t know where to start expressing their deep desires, because they’ve been faking or repressing their desires for so long that they’re afraid to have that conversation with a partner now.
Know that there is more to their erotic nature but they dont know how to access it or how to share it vulnerably and intimately with a partner.
THE COURSE MODULES IN DETAIL
Orientation | Foundations for sexy success
Mapping your Core Erotic Blueprints™ | Learn the 5 erotic types, the 5 stages of sexuality, and the 4 obstacles or pathways to sexual health and pleasure
Determine your Blueprint | Discover you and/or your partner’s arousal pathway, play touch games to determine your or your partner’s EB, learn turn on techniques for all 5 Blueprint types
Feeding the Blueprints | Learn how to nourish your and/or your partner’s Blueprint, learn touch skills in each Blueprint style
Speaking the Blueprints | Discover the words and body language that turn on each Blueprint (they each have their own non verbal and verbal styles of communication), play aural games to arouse your lover and increase desire
Healing the Blueprints | Uncover the shadow aspects of your Blueprint and start to heal sexual wounding that blocks your pleasure
Expanding the Blueprints | Learn how to play in other Blueprints and begin the path to sexual mastery
Hot sex for a lifetime | Integration and where you go from here.
are you ready to demystify your erotic template and unlock the secret pleasures of your body?
SEX LIFE REBOOT
Take your sex life from hot mess to writhing “Yes!” with the Erotic Blueprints™
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“Niav’s holistic approach to coaching is transformational. Niav brings a wealth of knowledge to each session sharing techniques to experience unimaginable pleasure, as well as exercises to heal deep childhood wounds.
Personally, Niav has helped me overcome a decade old habit that impacted my sexual confidence, greater awareness to experience multi-orgasms, and confront limiting thought patterns.
If you are looking for personal growth, inner harmony, or breathtaking pleasure - Niav is the coach for you.”
— JAMES F, BOSTON, MA